Bernice Guilfoyle

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Dear Mom,
You will be gone from this earth for almost twelve years now. And I really do miss you so much. It's still hard for me to believe that you aren't here physically- I still have times when something good or exciting in my life will happen and I run to the phone only to stop in my tracks and realize that I cannot "talk" to you, verbally anyway. It's so hard sometimes.
Your 90th birthday just passed on 12/13 and I thought of you the entire day, trying to smile and remember you when you were strong & healthy. I don't know if you realized how sick you were toward the end but know that I did everything that I could to help ease your passing. It was very difficult to watch. And when I walked into your room and you were "gone" I looked up and smiled and waved good-bye, hoping that you saw me. I realized that you were finally "free" to go to the Light and rejoice. It must truly be beautiful where you are. Although we never shared a mother/daughter relationship that was close, I hope that you are with me now when I think about you or talk to you. I dream of you sometimes- I had 2 or 3 dreams about you right around your birthday and wondered if you were "trying" to get through.
I love you mom, and can't wait to see you again when my time comes. I know that will be a long time from now as I've been told, but it will be good to see you again and smile and know that only good feelings and love will abound.
May you be at peace and I hope with daddy- he waited long enough for you. Please be around me at momentous times in my life- I want to share them with you and know that I can if you're "with" me. Until we meet again, I love you.....I hope that we meet at "The Garden Gate."
All of my love, Little Kate
Happy Birthday & Merry Christmas in Heaven.

Obituary:
BERNICE D. GUILFOYLE HOAR: Newspaper Obituary and Death Notice
Record, The (Hackensack, NJ) - January 2, 1997
Deceased Name: BERNICE D. GUILFOYLE HOAR
BERNICE D. GUILFOYLE HOAR, 78, of Wood-Ridge, formerly of Hoboken, died Tuesday. Before retiring in 1979, she was a secretary for Sun Chemical Co., Carlstadt, where she worked for 11 years. She was a parishioner of Assumption R.C. Church, Wood-Ridge, and a member of its Rosary Society. Arrangements: Kohler Funeral Home, Wood-Ridg
Edition: All Editions
Page: l04

Her sister's obituary:
Record, The (Hackensack, NJ) and Herald News (West Paterson, NJ) - June 9, 2004
Deceased Name: GUILFOYLE
GUILFOYLE - Virginia of Wood-Ridge on June 7, 2004. Loving sister of the late Bernice Hoar (1996). Dear aunt to Kathleen Mautner of East Rutherford, Eileen deMatos of Hillsborough and Nancy Hoar of Kearny. Funeral Thursday 9 AM from Kohler Funeral Home, 280 Hackensack Street, Wood-Ridge. Mass 9:30 AM at Assumption R.C. Church. Interment St. Nicholas Cemetery. Visiting Wednesday 3-5 and 7-9 PM.

Bernice married Thomas Hoar. Thomas (son of Michael Hoar and Marie Washington) was born on 5 Mar 1916 in Passaic, Passaic Co, New Jersey, USA; died on 5 Mar 1984 in Hackensack, Bergen Co, New Jersey, USA. [Group Sheet]

1. Kathleen Hoar was born in 5 Mar.

Martin married Mary Wallander. [Group Sheet]